As my Election Day burnout is slowly starting to fade and I will my overstressed jaw to unclench, I think it's time we have a talk.
A real talk. Not an insult-fest. Not a recitation of the propaganda that's been ricocheting across the airwaves for the last few months. Not an opportunity for us to convince each other that we're the one who is actually right.
I'm just really confused about some things and have been too shy and in fear of conflict to ask.
Laying it out there, I voted for Kamala Harris this election and about half of my friends and loved ones voted for Donald Trump.
My political background: I registered to vote in 1992, the very week I turned 18. I did not register under either party. It was an election year and I voted for George H.W. Bush against Bill Clinton.
For most of my twenties, I was heavily influenced by the Christian church and Christian talk radio. Therefore, having voted Republican in most presidential elections, with the Democrats receiving a few of my votes in lower-ranking government positions.
In my thirties, the "scales had fallen from my eyes" (as the religious love to say) and I started to think more clearly and independently. Taking in media from both sides, while still maintaining a faith in God, and realizing that my true heart and conscience leaned socially left.
My first Democratic presidential vote was for Barack Obama's second term. And, as of yesterday, I have voted Democrat in each presidential election since.
The Trump Era: That being said, I never felt persecuted for the way that I voted until the Donald Trump era. Before then, it was a personal choice. The most heat coming from political dissent would be a terse "agree to disagree" concurrence.
Then suddenly, in the past eight years, the dissidence became so very Black and White. So, Evil vs. Good. So, Us vs Them.
Lines drawn in the sand. Brick walls assembled between families. All because of one man. An enemy to some. A saint to others. The most polarizing character I've witnessed in my lifetime.
I'm having trouble understanding and have a genuine curiosity about our differences. These questions are not meant to incite anger or defensiveness. I just truly want to hear these answers as a sincere dialogue to understand one another better.
My Questions for You:
1.) Do Trump's Christian supporters truly accept that he is a fellow Believer? Without citing Ecclesiastes 3:17, James 4:12, or any other verses about how it isn't our place to judge another's true faith. I know the Bible as well as you, so we can skip that part. But, I also see posts about how he is God's choice for our nation. The Christian leader we have been in need of. I'm just asking, what is it about his persona screams "CHRISTIANITY" and makes him seen as the moral leader of our time for some?
2.) Trump supporters of other faiths. How do you feel he represents you?
3.) Trump supporters of other races. How do you feel he represents you?
4.) For those I've churched with who have judged me for wearing mini skirts and having kissed boys before being married, Can you forgive my short-comings as easily as you've forgiven his crimes? Do you show the same level of forgiveness to family members, friends, co-workers, neighbors and others in your daily life? Or, is it not a matter of forgiveness, just acceptance?
5.) Are you a true supporter of Trump? Or was your vote just a 'Lesser of Two Evils" situation? Or a matter of not wanting to cross party lines? I've definitely cast those type of votes in the past.
6.) If "yes" to Question 5? Is there anything he could do that would cause him to lose your support? Examples being something like not following through on a campaign promise. Or, anything within the gamut of paying for a lover's abortion to the extreme of solicitation of murder. Is there a line where you walk away or are you fully invested in his authority for the next four years?
7.) For those voting solely for the Pro-Life candidate: Are you okay with the extreme abortion laws implemented in places like Texas? Would you be okay with your state following suit? Have you ever been in a position to have to choose? Have you ever needed a medical D&C for a miscarriage or other feminine medical issue? Do you consider D&C procedures as falling under the realm of abortion?
8.) Regarding LGBTQ rights. With Trump in office, will this lessen the exposure of your children to lesbians, gays, bi-sexuals, transgenders, or queers/questionings? How do you think this exposure will affect your children? How has gay marriage or domestic partners receiving marital benefits rights personally affected you or your household?
9.) "Patriots": Do you support an insurrection against The Capitol or other government building if the Democrats choose to do so next January? If not, what difference do you see between "Conservative" and "Liberal" protests? Has your view of January 6, 2024 changed at all in the past year?
10.) Will Trump's age affect his ability to serve as Commander in Chief? I was relieved at Biden's decision to drop of out this year's race for that very reason. Based on recent Trump speeches and behaviors, it has caused me to have the same concerns with him being only three years Biden's junior.
11.) Do you have any questions for me?